Love it? Your list it?

It’s not always an easy decision. After all, home isn’t just a place—it’s memories, comfort, and familiarity. Deciding whether to move or stay put often goes far beyond bricks and mortar. It’s about lifestyle, timing, and what feels right for you and your family.

Over the years, I’ve had so many conversations with people who are torn between the two. Here are some of the most common reasons why people decide to stay—and why others choose to take the leap and move.

Five Reasons People Stay Put

1. They love their neighbourhood.
A great community makes all the difference. Whether it’s friendly neighbours, a nearby park, or the local café that knows your order by heart, a sense of belonging can be hard to leave behind.

2. Moving feels too stressful.
Let’s be honest—moving can be daunting. Between packing boxes, changing utilities, and navigating the logistics of buying and selling, it can feel overwhelming. For some, the thought alone is enough to stay put.

3. They’ve invested in their home.
After years of decorating, extending, and personalising every corner, many homeowners feel they’ve created their ideal space. It’s hard to walk away from something you’ve poured so much love (and money) into.

4. The market feels uncertain.
Sometimes people prefer to wait things out—especially when interest rates or property prices feel unpredictable. Staying put can offer peace of mind until the market feels steadier.

5. Family roots run deep.
Being close to loved ones, schools, or familiar surroundings often outweighs the practicalities. Some homes hold a value that no market appraisal could ever put a price on.

Five Reasons People Decide to Move

1. They’ve outgrown their space.
Life changes—families grow, work patterns shift, and hobbies evolve. Suddenly, that home that once felt perfect starts to feel a little too snug.

2. A new job or lifestyle opportunity arises.
Whether it’s a job relocation, a desire for a slower pace of life, or even retiring near the coast, a change in circumstances often prompts a move.

3. They want to make a smart financial move.
Some homeowners take advantage of a strong market to sell, while others downsize to free up equity for travel, family, or simply to enjoy life with fewer financial pressures.

4. Maintenance has become a burden.
Large gardens and older homes can be wonderful—until they become too much to manage. Moving to something easier to maintain can be incredibly freeing.

5. They’re ready for a change of scene.
Sometimes, it’s just time. A fresh start in a new area, a different view from the window, or a home that better suits a new stage in life can feel exactly right.

And Finally...

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer to the love it or list it question. The right decision depends on your lifestyle, your finances, and what you want your next few years to look like.

If you’re torn between staying where you are and seeing what’s next, we’re always happy to chat things through.
At JDG, we’re here to help you weigh up your options, understand the local market, and make the decision that truly feels right for you.

Thanks for reading and if I can help in anyway, please get in touch.  You can email me at michelle@jdg.co.uk or call us on 01524 843322

Michelle x